If we were to depict life as a drama, we must make sure we are good actors. It is never easy to act. Because life is a drama where there is no take two.
Sometimes, we forget that we have to play different roles at different points of time. For example, when you are at home, you are expected to play the role of a good daughter. When you are with your friends, you need to play the role of a good listener, a friend that can be trusted. When you are attending a lecture, you immediately have to switch your role to an obedient student. It can be confusing at times, especially when the roles overlap, and how you balance between the roles. That is how we mess things up, issues like boyfriend accusing you of ignoring him when you are actually spending time with your girlfriends arise.
Sometimes, we weigh ourselves too much or too little in the drama. You thought you are a small character in someone's life, but actually you mean the whole world to that person. Or, you thought that without you, someone's drama will not be complete, which actually is wrong.
Life is complicated. Always remember who we are with, where we are, what we are expected to do and what we are expected not. Play your drama well. Don't play the wrong roles.
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